The Sacred Connection: Embodying Aphrodite’s Grace and Power
The Four Charms of Aphrodite
Aphrodite, the goddess of Love, embodies the divine power that brings life into existence. It is through love that we are born, the love of our parents creating the foundation for life itself. As a supreme deity, daughter of Uranus (Heaven), Aphrodite rises even above Zeus, for she is born of the heavens; she is the daughter of the cosmos’ most primordial force. In Ancient Greece, she is revered not only as the goddess of romantic and physical love but as the symbol of beauty in all its forms—psychic, mental, and physical. Aphrodite represents ‘Kallos’, the ideal of beauty that extends beyond the material world.
Contrary to popular belief, the four charms of Aphrodite go far beyond physical pleasure. They ascend to a higher philosophical level, reflecting the essence of divine love.
1. ‘Philotis’ (Love, Tenderness, Union)
In ancient Greek, ‘Philotis’ represents pure love, tenderness, and union. It is the first essential element in receiving the goddess’s inspiration, blessing, and the success of romantic connection. A woman is not merely a vessel of pleasure; she has a soul and a mind. True love, not base lust, is the key to experiencing the fullness of love. According to the philosopher Empedocles, ‘Philotis’ is one of the two universal laws. It is the cosmic link that stretches across the universe, uniting the material with the intelligible. It connects you with the divine and represents a state of divine tenderness and love.
2. ‘Imeros (Lust, Longing)
‘Imeros’ is the desire, the tension that pulls the soul toward the divine through the attraction we feel in love. It is the current that divides creation, the soul's longing for union with the divine. Just as we are drawn to a romantic partner, we are also drawn toward Divine Love. This erotic longing is a filter that leads to creation and deeper connection, reflecting our innate pull toward spiritual unity.
3. ‘Oaristys’ (Sweet Talk, Tender Communication)
‘Oaristys’ represents the sweetness of love expressed through gentle, tender words. It is the art of intimate communication, the words that nourish and strengthen love. In the whispers and soft conversations of lovers, there is a divine exchange that allows love to flourish and grow.
4. ‘Parfasis’ (Whispered Words of Love)
‘Parfasis’ refers to the soulful whispers that come from deep within. It is the intimate, heartfelt exchange between lovers that transcends superficial conversation, connecting soul to soul. This is the essence of spiritual communication, where the heart speaks the truth of love.
In Aphrodite's philosophy, ‘Philotis’ or ‘Agapi’ (Love) resides in the heart, while ‘Imeros’ (Desire) is the energy that flows from the eyes to the heart, connecting the mind, beauty, and higher centers of being. The Greeks call the act of love ‘Synousia’, meaning The Merging of Essences— is not merely a physical act for procreation, but a union of mind and heart.
The path of Love is, ultimately, the path of the Heart.
When we experience love that is reciprocated and genuine, beyond mere lust, we feel a deep joy and an uplifting of the spirit, aligning ourselves with the gifts of Aphrodite. This high-vibrational state enhances our spiritual and etheric energy, raising us toward the divine.
In relationships, it is crucial to ensure that the higher centers—mind and heart—are dominant, rather than the lower, physical desires. This is why the genital organs are positioned lower in the body, symbolizing that true love should rise above base instincts. As Euripides so profoundly stated, all life is a gift from Aphrodite.
The human mind has the power to shape its reality. When you change the way you perceive the world, you attract what is aligned with your vision. By focusing on the higher aspects of love, you naturally draw in what is right for your soul, your true self. Her symbol, the white dove, represents the flow of divine gifts from above—therefore Aphrodite, is the Holy Spirit in its all essence.
The Sacred Connection: Embodying Aphrodite’s Grace and Power to Awaken the Divine Feminine within
The sacred symbols of the Goddess of Divine Love included the White Dove, symbolising the pure divine love; the graceful Swan, embodying elegance; the free spirited horse, representing wild and true beauty; the sweet fragrant Rose, the eternal symbol of love and desire; the Shell, signifying birth and creation; and the Pearl, reflecting purity and timeless beauty.
Invoke the essence of Aphrodite by embracing her sacred symbols. In ancient Greece, pearls were believed to be the tears of Venus, embodying the infinite beauty and purity of love. By wearing them, you weave an invisible thread that connects the present to the past, drawing in her blessings and good fortune as you begin to build a shared future filled with love and harmony.
By calling upon the Goddess’ essence, you elevate your level of self-care and respect, which ultimately attracts a partner who resonates with your true essence, fostering a love built on harmony and mutual alignment.
Euripides on Aphrodite: